8 REASONS YOU HAD A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP - THE LESSONS.

The other day seven years relationship was dissolved and the young girl was devastated, hurt and disappointed. She was able to regained herself after she was introduced to a pastor who counseled her. Hope deferred maketh the heart sick, but when the desire cometh, it is a tree of life. Pro 13:12. Broken vows and covenants are very common in relationships between opposite sex nowadays. One of the major causes of disengagement is infatuation or lust. People claim to be in love without knowing what they are loving, by the time reality dawn on them, they awake and disengage themselves from such relationship. Some ladies have gotten series of broken relationship, as such are afraid
to be involved in any other relationship.
 

Causes of broken relationship

1. Unfaithfulness

2. Wrong information

3. No fear of God

4. Disobedience

5. Always demanding

6. Stinginess

7. Ungratefulness

8. Sexual involvement

Not all relationships or a courtship that leads to marriage. That is why you must not start living as if you are already husband and wife. Many ladies make the mistake of living together and start having $ex when the bride price has not been paid and all protocol not observed. When you do so; you present yourself too cheap to him and you’re taking risk because you are not yet married. Introduction is not marriage. you must understand that.

No matter your revelation or conviction don’t live together, wait until you are married. Relationships these days is now built on $ex , both parties become $ex slaves and at that the lady starts demanding for money and other material things because she has given out her dignity and they forget God.

If you have been involved in a broken relationship, dust off your feet and put on your shoes. Cast your confidence on the Lord Jesus Christ. He is a repairer of broken walls. He can make right that which has been made wrong.

Kindly observe the following guidelines if you've had a broken relationship

# Accept the disengagement as the will of God. He knows the best.

# Believe that God is going to give you a better one than the former.

#Forget about the previous broken relationships. “Remember ye not the former things, neither consider the things of old. Behold, I will do a new thing, now it shall spring forth, shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness and river in the desert.

#Don’t judge your present engagement with the previous ones. Tell yourself; the best is yet to come. Stop discussing the previous relationship when the wounds are not yet healed.