HOW TO BUILD A LOVING & LASTING RELATIONSHIP

Like any organic system, a human relationship is subject to entropy-meaning that it is always in a state of decay. With little effort you can contract the tendency for your love relationship to fall apart. Create psychological intimacy; share your most experiences and deepest feelings with the person you love. Let the purpose of the relationship be known and all your intentions. Talk daily about your impression of the people and events you encounter. Reveal your most important life goals; share your reactions to the triumphs and failures you experiences. Maintain physical intimacy only: like hug, peck and short kiss in private; hold hands in public. Please take note “Don’t introduce $ex because if you do, you've killed the relationship and it will start shrinking. Spend time together discussing your
other lives work, your families, your hobbies, and any other areas of life you may not always experience together. Make each other laugh especially in a mature relationship where you may have forgotten the importance of being funny. Express love in ways that are important. Some need to see proof of love (for example, gifts or saying I Love you” or giving complements); some need to see proof of love. (For example, through hugs and kisses not $ex because $ex is not a proof of love in a relationship except only in a matrimonial home). Tell your partner which of these expressions you need. Each of you makes a list of things the other can do to reinforce the feeling of being cared for: do at least one thing on your lovers list every time. Ladies don’t be over demanding; know that he’s not yet married to you. View the flaws you see in your lovers as coal that hasn't yet turned into diamond. Don’t plan or hope to change a thing. If you can’t accept that “what you see is what you get” leave the relationship before it’s too late. Comment lets know what’s in your mind. Thank you!