EVERYBODY WILL NEVER LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE - BE YOURSELF!

You may find yourself asking the question – “Why don’t people like me?” Well, because they don’t have to.
As much as we hate to accept it, people have the free will to like or dislike us. No one is required by law (spiritual or human) to like you. The problem is that most of us can’t wrap our heads around this notion. Our egos come into play and we start desiring for everyone to like us.
We automatically feel something is wrong with us when someone doesn’t like us. And since most of us hate the discomfort that comes with being disliked, we may feel the need to avoid it by overcompensating to please others

HOW TO BUILD A LOVING & LASTING RELATIONSHIP

Like any organic system, a human relationship is subject to entropy-meaning that it is always in a state of decay. With little effort you can contract the tendency for your love relationship to fall apart. Create psychological intimacy; share your most experiences and deepest feelings with the person you love. Let the purpose of the relationship be known and all your intentions. Talk daily about your impression of the people and events you encounter. Reveal your most important life goals; share your reactions to the triumphs and failures you experiences. Maintain physical intimacy only: like hug, peck and short kiss in private; hold hands in public. Please take note “Don’t introduce $ex because if you do, you've killed the relationship and it will start shrinking. Spend time together discussing your

8 REASONS YOU HAD A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP - THE LESSONS.

The other day seven years relationship was dissolved and the young girl was devastated, hurt and disappointed. She was able to regained herself after she was introduced to a pastor who counseled her. Hope deferred maketh the heart sick, but when the desire cometh, it is a tree of life. Pro 13:12. Broken vows and covenants are very common in relationships between opposite sex nowadays. One of the major causes of disengagement is infatuation or lust. People claim to be in love without knowing what they are loving, by the time reality dawn on them, they awake and disengage themselves from such relationship. Some ladies have gotten series of broken relationship, as such are afraid

I’M FRUSTRATED! I'M GIVING UP ON LIFE - DON’T QUIT YET!

It is certain that on your way to the throne, you will face thorn. It is a known fact that kings don’t just assume Lordship of a nation, they proof themselves in the battle field. They fight wars to protect their territories. Julius Caesar proofed his rulership of Roman Empire by fighting wars and conquering his enemies. Let me asked you a question. Are you on a journey to greatness but feel like giving up? Is there something you have been expecting and waiting for, is the season of delay becoming unbearable? Do you feel like quitting your business, marriage or ministry because the change you desire is not forth coming as quickly as you would desire or anticipate?

A wise man once stated, “Quitters are not

THE STORY OF ACRES OF DIAMONDS - YOUR SUCCESS IS WITHIN AND AROUND YOU

It is hard to believe that bundles of opportunities surround you especially when you’re facing challenges in the pursuit of your dreams. Sometimes I find it very difficult to believe this, but this is the truth. One of the best known lectures ever delivered on the surface of the earth is “Acres of Diamonds.” this lecture became so popular that the author, Russell cornwell, delivered it about five thousand times before different audiences in his lifetime. 
It is a story of Ali Hafed who lived in a cottage on the river bank, from which he could get a grand view of the beautiful country stretching away to the sea. He had a wife and children, an extensive farm, fields of grain, gardens of flowers, orchards of fruit, and miles of forest. He had plenty of money and everything that his heart could wish. He was contented and happy.

TODAY'S QUOTES - THURSDAY 08TH DEC. 2016

Here you will find quotes to nourish your soul and epigrams to ponder and apply in order to form the habits of world changers. Please do share these good quotes to lit up someone with hope.

Nothing in the world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain, difficulty… I have never in my life envied a human being who led an easy life. I have envied a great many people who led difficult lives and led them well.

Theodore Roosevelt

E.W. Kenyon wrote “There is a gold mine hidden in every life. Nature never made a failure. Every man has success hidden away in his soul. No one else can find it but himself. He holds the key to the hidden room. Failure comes because we never sought out the hidden treasure. Failure comes beause we tried to

YOU WON’T BE JOBLESS AGAIN AFTER READING THIS - THE WAY-OUT OF YOUTHS UNEMPLOYMENT IN NIGERIA

March 15, 2014 was an unforgettable bloody Saturday for Nigerians and a mournful day for the relatives of about 19 persons who were trampled to death at various exam centres, including national stadium, where about 2 million youths gathered for the job aptitude test organized by the Nigerian Immigration Service. Some reports put the number of the applicants chasing the so-called 4000 vacancies at 6 million. These multitudes were looking for an employer, greener pasture – a successful leader of an organization. They were searching for the contact of that man who has built his one-man business into a multi-billion-dollar organization capable of paying huge salaries – a man who has paid his prize or dues. You must think for yourselves and start from where you are with what you have. It was Bishop Abioye who noted that “Grave digging is the only venture that starts from the top. Anyone who starts from the top is digging a grave for himself. You don’t know how much you can do until you start doing it.” These 19 graduates die because their minds has been conditioned to look for job instead